Admiring The Trans Journey

Who says that being trans is a bad thing?Who says being trans is a scary thing? Don’t get me wrong being a trans woman comes with its perks and its downsides. In my opinion the whole journey is a glamorous thing.

When was the last time you actually looked back at your trans experience and felt relived that you came this far. You should be proud of yourself and the woman you are becoming. Love the idea of being true to yourself and no one else’s. Your light is precious , just like your trans identity sacret yet refined.

A lot of the time ,us “Trans girls” tend to look outwards rather than inward. We tend to look for the next best thing that would quote on quote make us woman enough. Take a step back and ask yourself “the things I seek so desperately is that what I truly want?” More than likely the answer is no. No one wants to be woman enough, we simply just want to exist as the woman we always were.

As a Trans Woman I believe that we should admire our trans journey a lot better than we should . Look into ourselves and get to know the woman that was already there. How about you comfort her , ask questions and become the woman your younger self would be proud of. Stop negotiating your identity with the world around you and start developing the life you want to embrace on the inside. Nothing can get better if you keep doubting yourself. This life “like I say all the time was never meant to be perfect”. It’s only as perfect as you see fit. So , who is she? The woman in the mirror that shines back at you? Trust her and let her guide you to be the best that you can be.

You can’t become HER if you’re stuck trying to please others. So choose yourself and be fearless about it no matter what.