Feeling Sorry For Yourself
Feeling Sorry for Yourself
Why feel sorry for things you can’t control? There comes a point in your journey where you have to start seeing the brighter side—even when the world is kicking and punching you to the floor.
Realize this: life isn’t fair to anyone. And when I say no one, I mean no one. Crying under your sheets, hoping for a sign or a savior, won’t get you anywhere.
You must become your own savior. Become who you were always meant to be—the person in the mirror who is so boldly authentic that even the “haters” have nothing to say. While everyone else is out accomplishing their goals, you’re sitting there waiting for the next big thing to happen.
When will you realize that life doesn’t reward just anyone? It rewards people who are hungry enough to go out and take what they want. It’s the audacity, the restlessness, and the drive to be greater that gets rewarded. Sitting around looking miserable won’t get you anywhere—ha, girl please. Get a hold of yourself.
You are a lady. Not just any lady, but a Trans woman who has faced discrimination since the start of her journey. So why not let your pain redirect you toward wisdom? Use that anger to build your dream life. Don’t waste another tear on people who don’t deserve it.
It’s time to choose you—this 2026. Not next year. Not the year after that. This year.
Just Start Doing
You’ve come this far—so what are you waiting for, a damn cookie? It’s time to take back everything that was rightfully yours: the tears you cried, the outbursts you had, the sympathy you gave to the wrong people.
Now it’s time to build the very thing you’ve been putting off for so long. Are you scared people are going to laugh?
Why be scared when you already did the hardest part—being boldly you? Trust that your vision is meant for you and you alone. No one—and I mean no one—can compete with authentic ideas that come straight from the soul.
What sets you apart is simple: you started today. You did the thing everyone else was afraid to do.
From now on, you’re betting on yourself—to become the absolute beast you were meant to be. Get out of your feelings. Harness that feminine energy. Show up divinely for the goals you promised yourself—because growing old with regret turns dreams into nightmares.
“What if it doesn’t work?”
That’s not possible when you already know it’s yours.
That’s the secret sauce. Knowing something will work is part of the recipe for success. But you’re not ready for that part yet—get off your ass first, and then we’ll get to the good part. Check out the my free resource for empowering Trans Women https://www.deartranssisters.blog/books-for-trans-women/p/empowerment-guide-for-trans-women
…To Be Continued