Being Trans But On Your Terms
When you start to embody the woman you always looked up to in the mirror. Everyone seems to have this idea of what your supposed to look like in this journey. No one stops to ask if” this version they painted,” is the one you you want to be. What if I Told you that the woman you want to be isn’t actually so hard to be. Being the One who sits between Masculine and Feminine Energy should be the one to sail there own boat. If you give people the right to write your story that is exactly what there going to do , if you don’t start choosing yourself over external validation.
People will always have there opinion, there latest gossip, and there prospective on the woman your integrating in this life time. I understand its hard and I understand that life doesn’t care weather your trans, a dog or fish. That's why its so important to choose yourself , even if that means cutting of toxic family and choosing a life on your own terms. Being Trans doesn’t mean you have to follow the worlds idea of womanhood, who’s says you have to fit in a box when you have your own world to create and cultivate within. How do you expect to “To be Trans On Your Own Terms” when you are battling with yourself on the inside.
If you constantly disrespect yourself, be-little yourself and think your not passable , well maybe that’s the truth for you at the moment. I was once in your shoes, I felt I wasn’t beautiful, pretty , or gorgeous. It felt like I was a a wolf wrapped in sheep’s clothing. Later on in my transition I remember ,I looked at myself in the mirror and then told myself “I am More of a woman than they ever were”. This is not me being snobby or conceited ,but it was a way of reclaiming my own definition of woman hood. To be able to live a life on my own accord as a woman I could be proud of. I’m proud to say I beat the odds.
Even though I'm still learning each and everyday. One step at a time is all you need in this journey to be present in the body you were born into, to love yourself like no one has ever loved you before. So be gracious to yourself my dear, you are the very embodiment of love and joy within a vessel that people cant appreciate. So if you need a bit of help or assistance in becoming the woman you want to be Book a 1:1 with me via the link, below. To jump start your journey to embodying and authentically being you.
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