No Longer Serving You
There gets to a point in your journey , where life will start to test you. Life will try to sabotage you on purpose , just because you stated that you were a changed woman. The moment that you declare something different from the previous old version of yourself is when , the journey actually begins. You take a look at yourself in the mirror , and you question is this life really meant for you, of course “you nod your head in agreement” but I would like to know why hold on to that old version of yourself that’s no longer “serving your highest purpose or yourself”. You cling to the very person that got you this far. I want to hold your hand gently when I say this , that person cant come with you. The woman that you were before , is to small, and her way of thinking , living , breathing and seeing the world is completely different than the version that you are now.
The Trans Woman , that you are has outgrew her. Give yourself some grace knowing that , she has brought you a long way. Remember that in order for you to fully in body this new identity , you must first sacrifice the old you that is “No Longer Serving You”. Just like the leaves on a maple tree, in order for her to fully bloom in the spring. She must first endure and let go of her sorrows in the winter. Now I don’t mean this in a harsh way , but that just how life works , you cant hold on to dead weight and expect to elevate to the next level , when your trying to hold onto what you knew, instead of what your gaining.
As I state in my newest book “ Dear Trans Sisters” , it goes a little like this ““Why bother being someone else when you have a whole life to live? You're beautiful, magnificent, and you're bountiful. So act like the person or version of you that has everything you desire.”
Furthermore , this further proves my point. You cant be someone that has everything you desire, if you keep clinging to a version that’s still in lack of what you don’t have. The point of life isn’t to keep being the same, especially as a Trans Woman , you must indulge yourself even further , immerse yourself to the point of understanding that you can’t hold on to things that no longer serves you, and that goes for family, friends ,old spring flings and even certain places.
What used to bring you comfort can one day bring you a storm of hell. If your not careful to realize that , you must let go , you must let go of those old leaves in order for you to truly bloom into the woman you were meant to be.
In doing so I cultivated a mentorship program for my fellow Trans Sisters out there, who believe in there magic but you just need a little push to get that glow inside of you back shining , to finally embody that version of you that’s finally ready to be seen “ Book a 1:1 with me “
Thank you for all the love and support , my fellow Trans Women out there, continue to shine even when the world , tries to cast a shadow above you. Continue to believe in the magic that supports your very being. You are divine and whole heartily unique and prosperous, so never let anyone tell you otherwise.